Know Your Audience

What did I learn about my audience?   I learned that we are all pretty much the same.  The one thing we would all change is schooling.  My question was "If you could change anything about yourself what would it be and why?"  We all know we have to do it, but we would like the process to be a little faster.  There was one person in my audience I had to laugh because if I was in her shoes I would feel the same way.  She wanted her pregnancy to be over with.  I thought that was funny because no woman wants to be pregnant in the summer time.  But pretty much we are all the same just wanted are life to go faster during school.

Now that I know so much about my classmates, how will that impact my writing?  We might be different people, like different things.  The one thing that connects all of us is that we are all students and we are trying to do are best and become what we know we are capable of doing.

What surprised me was so many people wanting to change there relationships with there families.  I can honestly say I have never been in there shoes.  It hurts my heart to know that people do not have the kind of relationship like I have with my family.  If I could wish for anything in the world I would wish that people had loving and caring families.  I know that sounds silly but I think that everyone needs someone to look up to and cheering them on.  

In conclusion, I believe everyone wants to learn and grown from there past and change things about themselves.  Wither it be money problems, having great families, or just want to succeed in life.  I think my writing will change and grow know who I is my audience.

True Friends

It is funny how life works out.  Someone wise told me once that when you get older you will be able to count your true friends on one hand.  I thought that person was crazy.  No not me I have tons of friends I will always have a lot of people in my life.  Now looking back that person was right.  Those people you thought were your friends will either run away when they are done using you or you just grow apart.  I have had two friends for over 15 years.  They are my rock.  When we were younger we always said we were going to grow old with each other.  It's funny that one thought back when we were 18 has became reality.  I am 34 now,  no children , no husband.  I am fine with that because my friends have wonderful children that I have pretty much raised right with them.  There two boys are my life.  I would do anything for those children.  When it comes down to it.  Who needs friends that will only be there when it's good for them to be there.  I would much rather have Angela and Ryan in my life forever.

Life is .....

Life has so many ups and downs.  I would love to be the person in life that never has anything bad happen to them nor has to worry about disappointments.  As it seems like when stuff is going great for me I some how mess things up.  This week I have disappointed myself as well as my family.  That is the worst when your parents are not speaking to you.  I sometimes wish life had a rewind button where we could choose one thing out of the week we could change.  That would be so amazing. I know that everyone says ...everything happens for a reason, but wow does this stuff come at the worst times.  I feel that once I make it out of this dark whole I have dug myself in I will be a stronger person.  But right now things do not look good for my future.  I have worked so hard at my future.  My main thing right now is staying positive and thinking only good thoughts.  I know non of this makes sense to anyone but me.  This is just a way for me to vent my frustrations out without taking them out on someone else.

I Believe I have to have my heart broken to find that true person!!!

I believe everyone needs to have there heart broken at least once in there lives.  I think it makes you a better person and you will be able to find out what you really want in life.  I have had my heart broken a few times.  Trust me I would not want anyone to go through that heartache but once I made it out of the pain.  I look back now and realize that person just was not the one for me.  I feel like going through that time made me a stronger person and I know what I want from a guy.  Of course everyone grows apart, but I am talking about heartache that no one should go through.  It is hard to explain but say you are totally in love with a person and dating them for over two years.  The whole time you think that person is telling you the truth.  Come to find out you are not the only person in there lives.  They just told you what they thought you wanted to hear.  I would much rather have someone tell me the truth than to be lied to.  Now that I have made it passed that person I am grateful for the lesson I have learned.  I will make sure in the future that I watch how that person treats there family.  If they treat there parents with respect they will treat you the same.  I love giving advice to my friends that are going through the same problems I just went through.  Now I know a lot of people ask for others advice and than do what they want to do.  But if we would just sit back and listen to what they have to say they might be correct.  I never listened to my friends or my family when they told me to run.  Oh how I wish I would have listened but I am better now for going through those hard times.  Everyone makes mistakes but it is how we learn from those mistakes that make us a stronger person.  I can finally say I am happier now than I ever have been.  No I have not found my true person but I know that he is out there somewhere and when the timing is right he will show up. I am happy focusing on myself and my school.  I am finally doing something for me for a change and not worrying about what other people think of me.

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This I Believe

I believe I am a good daughter.
I believe I am a great friend.
I believe I am a hard worker.
I believe in myself.
I believe I will find true love.
I believe the hard times you go through make you a better person.
I believe I am a great sister.
I believe I will become a nurse.
I believe I will be happy.
I believe I can help people.
I believe everything happens for a reason.
I believe you have to have your heart broken to find that true person.
I believe everyone makes mistakes.
I believe I am out of things to say.
I believe the good out ways the bad.
I believe I am a good person.
I believe I am a happy person.
I believe I have to fall to learn how to pick myself back up.
I believe I have to clean my house.
I believe I need to turn the TV off.
I believe I still have a lot to say in life.
I believe I have my family watching over me.
I believe I make my parents proud of me.
I believe I am done typing.

Jung Typology

This is a very interesting topic to write on.   I took the test for Jung Typology.  I was a ESFJ.  Wow reading what this type is,  it hit me right on the head.  Everything it was saying about my type is so true.  How I over analyse everything, in my life and even in writing.   I totally agree with this type.  It even said that a great career choice for me would be nursing.  Which is what I am going to school to be.   I do agree with the writing portion.  It says I do not put off work I want to make sure that I get everything accomplished in a timely manner.  I also would rather write about personal experiences.  My main thing about writing when I feel the most confident is writing about something I know first hand about. 

 I honestly loved writing this blog.  I have always wanted to do something like this blog but never knew how to do anything like this.  I am so excited to be doing this.  I also feel that it will help me improve my writing skills.